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Setting and achieving a goal is as simple as placing an
online order. If you perform each step in the order process,
you can be certain that the thing you want is on its way.
Suppose I've set a goal to sell 20 widgets during the month
of November. I'll compare the online bookstore (where I
recently purchased an antique copy of "As a Man Thinketh") to
Life's Distribution System.
1. Decide What You Want.
Just as I can't expect the bookstore to send me a book
before submitting my request, neither should you expect clients
who will support a vague sales goal. Pick the dollar figure you
want to reach so that life can deliver the right clients.
2. Put it in Writing.
Before I could place the order for the book, I had to find
the right order page for that book. However, before I could
find the right order page, I had to type the right key terms
into the search bar. Wouldn't it have been absurd if I had
entered "not Catcher in the Rye, not anything written by
Poe..." in my search for "As a Man Thinketh"? Even if the
search feature was smart enough to exclude all of that, how
long would it take me to get to the book I want? Precision
saves time. Write what you want, and be as precise as you
can.
Don't talk about "getting out of debt" when you really mean
that you want "financial freedom." We must choose our search
terms carefully so that we can be taken to the right order page
of life. You're not looking for the "debt" order page, so quit
using that term!
Vague orders bring vague results, and so we never see the
connection between our requests and what shows up. Too often
we're placing careless orders unknowingly and then wonder why
life doesn't go the way we want it to go.
Now, commit to the thing you want by putting it in writing.
It's like entering it into an imaginary search box. It's the
fastest way to get to the right order page. Write it in present
tense as though it has already happened.
So, maybe your written statement will say, "November 30th,
2008: I have now sold 20 widgets." Getting it in writing takes
you to Life's "order page"... but you're not done yet. Neither
the book nor the clients are on their way until you've
completed the entire order process.
3. Add to Cart.
In my book buying experience, after entering "As a Man
Thinketh" in the search tool, it took me to a long list of
different books. Some were brand new reprints; some were from
the 1980's. I spent some time narrowing them down, until I
found the one that I wanted, which was more than 100 years old.
Then, after identifying my specific choice, I clicked "Add to
Cart." This is a logical step; after all, I can't expect the
store to ship the book until I have told them precisely which
one I want.
This step is comparable to adding detail to your goal
statement. You need to spend time creating a more detailed
description of the thing you desire. Instead of "November 30th,
2008: I have now sold 20 widgets," you write, "November 30th,
2008: I am so happy and grateful now that I have sold 20
widgets. I am astounded at how easily the clients came into my
life. I am grateful that I was able to provide them something
of great value that will help them accomplish their objectives
for a price that was fair. We are establishing a positive
relationship and expect to do more business together in the
future."
Do this step, and you have just added your desired thing to
the big Cart in the Sky.
4. Enter Your Shipping Address.
After the book was in my shopping cart, I had to tell the
store where to send it. This step assigns the book I want to
the location where I am. It brings together two key pieces of
information into one virtual place. Without this step, the
bookstore cannot send me the book because they have no address
for the package.
Goal setting is no different. Just as the book and my
address had to merge into one database, the thing you want
needs to be merged with your personal information, too. Notice
that during this step, it isn't the actual book that came
together with my actual house; it is simply a representation of
the book that came together with a representation of my
house.
The same needs to happen with a representation of the thing
you want, and a representation of you. How? Picture it done in
your mind. See yourself signing those final contracts. With the
power of disciplined thoughts, you merge the thing you want,
with the person you are. Your mind is the virtual database
where it all must come together before the order is filled.
5. Receive Confirmation.
After I filled in my shipping address, it asked for my
credit card info. This is where I "pay the price" for the thing
I want.
In setting a sales goal, to "pay the price" traditionally
refers to "pounding the pavement," "making the phone calls,"
"pulling late nights," "skipping lunches," etc.
But that's wrong. At least, it's wrong if you really want to
prosper.
The last thing required before you receive the order
confirmation is to allow yourself to experience the feelings
you expect to feel when the goal is reached. It isn't easy to
do, but you need to take your visualization exercise just one
step further. Here's an example:
You're signing those final contracts, and shaking the
customer's hands, and having the warm exchange of good will.
Then you feel the elation well up inside your chest, and you
escort them out of the room and close the door after they
leave, and feel the cool, metal doorknob in your hand, and hear
the heavy wooden door click shut. And you walk to your desk and
sit down with a big, huge grin on your face, and tip back for a
moment, then reach for the phone to call your spouse, and you
hear the dial tones, and then you hear he/she answering,
"Hello?" And with tears in your eyes, you tell him/her, "I did
it! It was a miracle, but I did it! Let's go out for dinner
tonight!" And your spouse screams on the other line and can
hardly speak, and the kids are chattering in the background,
"What? What's going on??"
That's your price. That's it. (Don't watch yourself doing
it; BE yourself doing it. Don't be an outsider looking in; be
in it where all you see of yourself is your arms on your
armrests and your lap in front of you, and your feet way down
there.)
If you spend some time generating those kinds of images in
your mind and feel the exhilaration of success, you've done it.
You've paid the price. And, as those feelings swell inside of
you and as tears really well up in your eyes, that is your
confirmation. Printing that receipt is optional by describing
your assurance in this moment on paper, so you can look at it
later as a hedge against doubt.
Trust Life to keep its promise, and go about your business
in peace. No need for frantic rushing around, pushing, forcing;
you've already paid the price. Go about your business with a
calm assurance that it is already a done deal.
The right clients are on their way and will connect with you
naturally as you go about your day-to-day activities. Spend
time with your family. Enjoy a little recreation. Be at peace.
In the right time, you'll have a thought to call so-n-so or
follow up with someone else. Simply follow the thought. Do what
it dictates. This is the final step:
6. Expect it to Come, and Open the Door.
After I made the payment, and I received my confirmation,
the book was on its way. I needed only to expect it, watch for
it, refrain from canceling it, and answer the door when it
arrived.
As for your goal to sell 20 widgets, if you've gone through
the entire order process and received confirmation, expect it,
watch for it, refrain from canceling it with unbelief, and when
opportunity knocks (because it will), simply answer the door.
By faith it comes to you; by action you receive it.
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